Jay was destined to be an adventurer. He packed his life filled with travel, fine dining and a myriad of tales of the cocktail. He embraced--and was embraced--by a large and loving family and scores of friends.
His final journey ended late in the evening of July 10th in the tender caress of his loving wife, Donna, his two sisters, Maureen and Judi, and his precious Westie, Enzo.
Jay was preceded in death by his father, James Edward Fagan, Jr., and his mother, Eva Hisky Fagan Reed. He is survived by his wife, Donna Trotter, his sisters, Maureen Principi (Vince), Judi Schrichte (Bill), nephews, Philip Principi (Jami), Eric Schrichte (Cindy), Josh Carlos (Virginia), and nieces, Alicia Whittington (Carson), Amy Phillips (Michael), Mimi Horrigan (Patrick), Lisa Seidel (Brian), Kimmie Carlos, Lauren Molaison (Jamie) and many great nephews and nieces. He is also survived by his in-laws, Teryl Trotter (Tim McElroy) and Karla Carlos.
Jay was born on February 11, 1949, in Memphis, TN, and was a graduate of Central High School where he was an active member of Sigma Phi Omega fraternity. He received his Bachelor of Arts degree in history from Louisiana State University in Baton Rouge and was an active member of Kappa Alpha fraternity. He then obtained a Doctorate in Dental Surgery from LSU School of Dentistry. Dr. Fagan practiced general dentistry in New Orleans for several years. He completed his fellowship in Periodontics in Boston, MA, and returned to New Orleans with offices in the metropolitan area, including the West Bank and Covington.
Jay’s best days were spent as an outdoor enthusiast. His passion and energy were greatest when at the helm of a sailboat, whether it be in the Caribbean, the Gulf of Mexico or Lake Pontchartrain. In his winters, he mastered the back bowls and double diamonds in scenic Vail, Beaver Creek, and Aspen; the spring and summer months led him to his pool, the beach and of course proving himself the best on the links with his golfing prowess. Other days, he enjoyed more than a few chukkas with the ponies on the polo pitch.
Jay was an avid storyteller. His stories, simply stated, were the best. They were peppered into virtually every discussion he had – an oral history, of sorts, that told about places he had been and were emblematic of a life filled with adventure and humor. There was a particular cadence and style that came with every “Jay Story”, told in a casual and self-deprecating humility that made others feel as if they were there. With his extensive knowledge of history, Jay could captivate the conversation with his “spot on” facts on the subject at hand. His travels introduced him to many new friends (even dogs) all across the world.
Jay lived life to its fullest, saying yes to every adventure that beckoned him. His countless hobbies included sailing, golf, tennis, and polo. He was a phenomenal cook, never glancing at a recipe or cookbook while borrowing liberally from his home garden.
His love of the water led Jay to become a certified master scuba diver which in turn led him to many dives in the great reefs in the Caribbean.
Jay had a voracious appetite for old movies and an uncanny ability to recall and recite details of movies, the actors and actresses, and the characters they played.
Jay realized his lasting romance with Donna. Discovering the globe together, Jay and Donna eloped, exchanging marriage vows in the Greek Isle of Santorini, and shared the best of their lives for the next 30 years.
The family will always be grateful to the St. Tammany Health System Hospice, and for the dedication from his caregivers, Cassandra, Bebe, Jazz, and Chansonette.
A Celebration of Life will be held in the New Orleans area at a later date. There will be a private interment for the immediate family.
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